I often find that agents try to do these under a Power of Attorney but they do not have the right to do so.
David Goldman
Florida Estate Planning Lawyer
Thank you for your thoughtful remarks. I could not agree more on the value and necessity of a power of attorney. Moreover, a simple form can only begin to demonstrate the flexibility and utility of such documents. Specialized drafting can prevent countless arguments before they start and avoid the necessity of getting a probate judge involved. I think it is in an excellent idea to incorporate one’s wishes regarding health care and living arrangements into the durable power of attorney and I encourage my clients to do just that.
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I am a nurse-attorney, working with a psychologist, helping with family conflicts concerning elders. Having a durable power of attorney for finances is necessary, and it is excellent planning to get one now. One thing the form you provide omits, however, is any mention of who will decide where an incapacitated elder will live and who will take care of him or her. Although the “living will” gives an agent the power to make healthcare decisions, the subject of where an elder should live when he or she cannot make decisions is the subject of many a family fight. It is good to spell out such preferences in advance, of course, but in case of incapacity, it is even better to designate one person who will make this decision for the elder. Stay at home with live-in help? Who will supervise and manage that? Go to assisted living? Skilled nursing? Money, personal preferences and availability of facilities in the elder’s area must all be considered. Given that people are living longer than ever, and that most of us will need help before the end of our lives, think of how one can prepare for these questions, and how the standard durable power of attorney falls short of doing so. Carolyn L. Rosenblatt, R.N., Attorney at Law, HelpWithElders.com
[Originally posted] Mar 6, 5:00 PM — Negative Inheritance?
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